I provide a cognitive behavior model of therapy which identifies problems in terms of emotion, thought, and behavior. Once the problem is defined, we can then begin exploring what can be done differently to get different results. Finally, we build upon the positive outcomes and strengths that emerge.

I fear not the man who has practiced 10,000 kicks once, but I fear the man who has practiced one kick 10,000 times. - Bruce Lee

When I work with couples and families, I utilize a structural model of therapy which explores the dynamics and boundaries within the family. The goal is to create a solid foundation and hierarchy for parents to lead from. Once these mechanics are illuminated, we play them out in session to make them shine in home.

Over the years, there is a lot I have learned to integrate into my in room work. From empty chair work, writing letters to future self, narrative elements…to having a sound understanding of trauma and human development…all the way to exploring the transference that comes up in session and having the talks about mom, dad, family secrets, and human experiences.

Sometimes people will need a space to speak, for reflection, get feedback, and problem solve. Sometimes, we have to sit with difficult feelings and challenge ourselves to sit upright too.

No magic pill & no rabbit in the hat.

I worked really hard and completed a ton of trainings to get independently certified by California’s Sex Offender Management Board. I ran six years of solid group therapy, in person, and ultimately decided to apply my knowledge based on what I learned about sexual offending through my work with both survivors, offenders, and seeing the larger impact on families and communities.

I manifest this vision through my group Inconvenient Victims which focuses on the pattern recognition of sexual offending, assertive skills, pornography’s impact, and tailoring this as an interactive and educational group for parents, survivors, and my colleagues worldwide.